• Life
  • I did a bad thing

    I spent all day at the car dealership and just wanted to have a cocktail with my girlfriends. There were laughs and friends and fun and good music and yes, cocktails. Three rum and cokes to be exact. And then I saw him, across the bar. My blood began to boil and I felt a […]

  • Relationships
  • forgive yourself

    I’ve been in a mental abuse cycle since Sunday morning. Things I should have gotten done 2 days ago have not gotten done. You know the pattern; you beat yourself up for something over and over again instead of forgiving yourself and moving to higher-energy thought. It doesn’t feel good. It doesn’t make you want […]

  • Relationships
  • The Divorce

    Almost 6 months ago my best friend and her husband got divorced. We both got married around the same time in 2011, although her and her husband had been together, off and on for about 10 years prior to their marriage. Becoming wives right along side each other showed me that marriage is no one […]

  • Relationships
  • Note to Self: Apples and Oranges

    This post was inspired by Susannah Conway recent blog post, The Permission Slip.  Note to Self: There’s no need to compare yourself or your work to anyone else’s. Apples and oranges, baby. No one is really better than anyone else. Everyone has a category all their own. The sooner you realize this, the more quickly […]