Remember, during these times when the water feels turbulent and you’re unsure of how some things will fall into place, to stay focused on what you know for sure. You know that you want to feel ease in your life. You know you want those around you feel loved and heard and safe and you know, for sure, that you want to feel connected to the world around you and the things you are choosing to participate in.
It may feel natural for you to want to control the variety of different elements floating around your life right now, but they simply aren’t meant for you to hold onto. You can see the pieces and arrange them when/how you can, but at the end of the day (and hopefully before them) you must put them down and take them out of your own hands…
If you’re a subscriber to my blog you’re probably truth seeker, like me. You want the best that life has to offer and when you realize that you’re the one standing in your way, you kindly do your best to get the hell out of the middle of the road. The only thing is, some collisions are unavoidable.
I spend most of my day saying no to sad blue eyes while trying to be serious and firm. In the moments in between I’m angry that I’m being forced to play this role and understanding that it is necessary for his safety and evolution.
Almost 6 months ago my best friend and her husband got divorced. We both got married around the same time in 2011, although her and her husband had been together, off and on for about 10 years prior to their marriage. Becoming wives right along side each other showed me that marriage is no one […]